Formal invitations will be mailed well in advance of our wedding. Each invitation includes an RSVP card—please fill it out and mail it back by the deadline printed on the card. If you’d like to respond sooner or have questions, please contact us directly by phone.

We’ll miss you, but we completely understand. Please RSVP “no” as soon as you know so we can plan accordingly. If you’re sure you can’t attend before your invitation arrives, please let us know sooner by phone or email.

If your invitation includes a guest’s name, please bring them; otherwise the invitation is for the person named only. We’d love to offer a plus one to everyone, but our guest list is limited and we need to keep within our budget—thank you for understanding.

As much as we adore your kids, we've decided to keep our wedding celebration primarily adults-only. The only children attending will be those in the wedding party and immediate family.

Thank you for understanding! We hope you'll take this as an opportunity for a relaxing night out and celebrate with us!

Dress code is formal. For women, floor‑length gowns, elegant midi dresses, or dressy jumpsuits are appropriate. Men should wear a suit with a tie. The ceremony will be outdoors (typical mid‑to‑high 70s in Gilbert, AZ); cocktail hour and reception are indoors.

The ceremony will be outdoors on pavement, so heel-sinking isn’t a concern—wear whatever feels comfortable. We recommend shoes you can stand and walk in for the ceremony and dance in later at the reception.

Typically in mid‑November in Gilbert, AZ, the weather is mild—mid‑to‑high 70s during the afternoon, cooling into the 60s by evening.

Yes — there is plenty of on-site parking at the venue.

Please arrive by 3:30 pm to mingle and find a seat; the ceremony will begin at 4:00 pm.

Yes — we’ll serve wine, beer, and spirits throughout the evening. Non-alcoholic options will also be available, including water, iced tea, and hot coffee.

The reception will end at midnight; please plan rides accordingly.